Honoring Parker’s Change-Makers

October 17, 2025
“I think we would all agree that the heart of the academic experience lies in the interaction between student and teacher.” ~Robert C. Parker

Every October, we dedicate one Friday to celebrating our namesake, Robert C. Parker, or as we affectionately refer to him, “Bob.” Bob was the principal of Emma Willard School from 1979 to 1986. He and his wife Marlisa, who directed the PreK-3rd grade Children’s School at Emma Willard, were an inspiration to the parents and teachers who wanted to continue that intentional education up through eighth grade. Robert C. Parker School opened its doors in 1991 as a place where experiential learning and the power of student agency drives our mission to engage each child in an ambitious and purpose-filled learning process.
Bob Parker began his teaching career in 1961 at the Brooks School in North Andover, MA. From 1964 to 1979, he worked at the Groton School. Bob joined the Emma Willard School as principal in 1979, where he served until his death in 1986. Bob was a dedicated and demanding teacher who valued and supported independence in his students. Bob believed that strong student-teacher relationships and experiences outdoors and outside the classroom were crucial to cultivating students who were invested in their learning. He felt strongly that this love of learning was the key to academic success. 
Bob also championed the values of service and leadership, and he felt strongly that academics connected to purpose motivated students both in school and beyond. In this spirit of bold generosity towards heartfelt convictions, we also took the occasion of this special day to remember a foundational figure in the life of Parker, Margery Whiteman. Margery died peacefully in May, 2025 at the age of 84. As one of our original founders more than 35 years ago, she shaped not only the vision of Parker but remained a constant and passionate presence throughout its evolution. Most recently, she served as President of our Board of Trustees. Her insight, clarity, and steadfast belief in our mission strengthened our school in countless ways.
Beyond her service to Parker, Margery lived life with remarkable energy, curiosity, and generosity. She was a devoted parent and grandparent, an avid traveler with her husband Michael, a joyful learner who participated in several book clubs, and a tireless volunteer who served on multiple boards. Her passion for exploration, her love of conversation, and her infectious enthusiasm enriched the lives of everyone lucky enough to know her.
Margery asked thoughtful questions, challenged us to think boldly, and always centered her feedback on what was best for students and the long-term health of the school. Margery had a unique ability to blend deep historical knowledge of Parker with a forward-thinking mindset – pushing us to honor our roots while embracing change. Her voice was a steady presence in conversations that helped shape our vision, and her influence will continue to resonate in the goals we set and the work we carry forward.

Margery’s absence leaves a tremendous hole in our hearts and our community, but her legacy will continue to guide us. Parker is a stronger and more resilient school because of her. With the blessing of Margery’s family, we will be fundraising for The Margery Whiteman Community Courtyard, which we know will honor her legacy as a gathering place to foster the joy, vivacity, and connection that Margery embodied and championed here at Parker.